Sunday, February 7, 2010

~LOVE~

As Valentines Day approaches I am reminded that we are blessed with so many people to love and to love us. I am so grateful that this is the case in my life... Life can be challenging at times and it is truly the love that I receive from so many family members and friends that pushes me through. The bible teaches us that Love is the greatest gift of all...  And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.1 Corinthians 13:13 
I am a huge fan of talking about love. Like many I have studied the concept of "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman, it was life changing for me and I share it with anyone that seems to want to listen ;) So for those who are unfamiliar with the concept it is simply the way that you communicate and receive "LOVE". The 5 Love Languages are: Gifts,Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Quality Time, and Physical Touch.... personally I am a Quality Time and Words of Affirmation girl ;) I just "love" to spend time with the people I care most about and "love" to encourage and compliment them, it's how I feel most full :) In return if you want to make me feel loved I respond best to love being communicated in those same ways. Not to say that if the other languages are spoken to me I will feel unloved, it's just that those two send me over the moon ;). 
I of course am interested in applying this concept to my family and friends and try to tune into what makes them tick... I think my husband is a major Words of Affirmation guy... it has taken me a very long time to figure this out because he is pretty low maintenance... As far as Claire goes, I am still honing in on what makes her little heart feel full, but I intend to figure that one out soon.  
I want to be a more effective friend so if you happen to know what your "Love Language" is leave me a comment telling me what it is... I want to bless those around me by truly knowing how to love on them. 
 As our country and families face uncertain times it's so important to focus on what we do have, and for me that is amazing friends and family... I am rich in all the ways that matter... and more thankful for what I have than ever!!!
I am posting a few pictures of Claire receiving a gift from a very close and wonderful friend who communicates love with giving gifts... and let me tell you she has mastered that Love Language ;) Thank you Lara for your sweet and loving Valentines gift for my baby girl!! 
Leslie~ 
 

4 comments:

Danielle said...

I'm so glad you've decided to jump into the blogging world with me! Your page looks lovely~

I agree with you, Valentine's is the perfect time to show our loved ones affection the way that they receive it best. It is one of my favorite holidays because I love smoothering the kids and Tim with love. Enjoy your Valentine's I am sure Aaron will spoil you rotten! :) p.s. what happened to your other posts?

Leslie said...

Thanks Danielle, glad you like it :) I like the aspect of being able to "decorate" a blog.... You know me ;) my other pages are more about function...

So what is your "love language"?
As far as Aaron spoiling me rotten, I'm not so sure that will happen this year, you know....

I deleted my other posts. I was being a little too pessimistic and would rather focus on the GOOD in my life.

Danielle said...

Words of Affirmation is my love language and it's Madalynn's too. : )

Becca said...

Leslie - I LOVE your blog! I'm so glad you blogged about love languages because I had been telling Jason recently that I wanted to re-take the quiz & see if mine had changed. I went to http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/personal-profiles/ and mine are still the same... I'm touch (no surprise there) and quality time.

By the way, Emerson has the darling little blue shirt that Claire received in the pictures. :)